Social Media

One day, I posted the cover of Aliens in the Backyard on Instagram. It was next to some photos of Golden Retrievers, covers from other books, an astrological chart of the solar eclipse on August 11. So some guy comments on the picture: Your IG (Instagram) is dope. What’s your story?

HIS story is – no kidding – “Just trying to play a super hero in a movie.”

But his remark made me think of an episode in Black Mirror, where everything in your life – from getting a job to obtaining a mortgage to leasing an apartment and eating at a restaurant – depends on your social standing. Your brand. Your story. In the episode, your social standing was, well, everything.  

Today on Sirius radio, I heard an MSNBC host talking about how Don Trump Jr’s brand went over well with his dad’s base. His brand, as defined through the number of his Twitter and Instagram followers, connected with people in that base. I was struck by how this all smacked of high school popularity contests or sororities and fraternities when I was in college. But with an important difference. With social media, you can buy followers. Doing so is supposedly against Instagram’s policies, but I frequently get messages about increasing “my profile” by buying followers.

Who are these bought followers? I Googled the question, but the only links that came up were for places where I could buy followers and why I should or should not do it. But if I do buy, then I should buy active Instagram accounts not inactive.  Huh? Under the why I should buy was a link about how increased Instagram followers meant you were an “influencer” – someone other people should pay attention to  because of… well, the number of your followers. Surely, that number must mean something, right?

Recently, I wrote a post about a woman with 12 million Instagram followers – enough to deem her an Instagram celebrity – who made a stink on a commercial flight. Her Instagram profile says she’s a fitness instructor, but most of the photos seem to be of her prominent butt. I get that Stephen King and J.K. Rowling have zillions of followers. They actually have accomplished something – great books!

But I don’t understand the big butt having 12 million followers or why Don Jr – a guy who hunts big game for pleasure and fun – has so many followers that he’s considered an “influencer.”

All of this brought me back to the question by the Instagram guy who’s “just trying to play a super hero in a movie.”  What’s my story? What’s your story? Don’t most of us have more than a single story?

That typewriter at the top of the post belonged to my dad. It’s a Hermes 2000, where he typed his impressions as an American living in Venezuela in the mid-20th century. Like you and me, his story is multifaceted and that, I think, is where most social media falls short. No one has just a single story, a single brand, a single passion. Our personal stories change as we evolve, as our insights deepen over time, and our passions expand.

No one’s identity is defined by Instagram or Twitter, Facebook or Snapchat or any other app. All are useful in one way or another for creative self-expression, business, public relations. But once we believe that any of them embody everything we are as spiritual beings in a physical universe, then we’re in deep trouble. And if we, as a society, allow social media to define who we are, that trouble gets ugly. We become sycophants just as shallow as those old high school yearbooks that declared so and so as “most likely to succeed,” or “most popular.”

So I think about that guy’s question: What’s your story? My response was writer of fiction and non-fiction.  That doesn’t even scratch the surface but Instagram doesn’t care. Give me a photo, words of wisdom, advice, Instagram says, and I’ll make you famous.




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13 Responses to Social Media

  1. Shadow says:

    It’s sad how many people have fallen into the social media trap. It’s a prison and means exploitation.

  2. CJ says:

    Have been waiting for this subject to appear on SS. I do nor, have I ever, participated in ANY social media sites, for good and personal reasons. Coming to this blog is the extent of my social media. Otherwise, my computer is used for research and emails and occasional shopping due to my inability to go to stores. Recently I was attempting to research a professional person and “limkedIn” appeared. Never heard of it, but stupidly put my email address on it thinking it was necessary to get the info I needed. Now I’m getting constant emails to finish my LinkedIn info. I can’t get it removed and am frustrated over it. Suggestions would be gratefully appreciated??????? Thank you, Trish and Rob, for providing me with the ONLY social networking I need and want! And also thanks to the folks who comment here. Can’t express how great it is for me to come to a site where I’m able to more or less ‘chat’and hear the thoughts and ideas of others! : )

  3. bh says:

    Yay, something else we can agree on. I’ve always felt the same way as far as social media seeming like a giant high school popularity contest. I don’t get it, and I have no use for it. I don’t care how many “likes” you have, or how many “followers” you have, or whatever – just tell me something interesting, and I’ll listen.

    I like to talk to actual people in the real world. No one does that anymore.

    • Trish and Rob says:

      If you take a random drive through wherever you live, 9 and out 10 people you see are staring at their phones.

    • Trish and Rob says:

      Here’s the other thing, BH. Publishers ask, where’s your Instagram? Twitter? Facebook? Whatever?

  4. lauren raine says:

    Here’s an interesting video about social media:

  5. lauren raine says:

    I found that episode on Black Mirror chilling……. personally, I’ve been feeling that social media has a mostly detrimental effect on me, and I’ve eliminated such accounts as twitter and linked in. I may even get rid of facebook. Here’s an interesting video about social media:

    trump junior is not really a big game hunter – he just goes to pitiful canned hunts.

  6. DJan says:

    I saw that Black Mirror episode and you make me wonder if this Instagram habit of buying followers is along the same lines. Our world is becoming more and more weird, if you ask me. Could it be something to do with our politics?? 🙂

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